wat's up wif relationships....

i know i'm kp but i cannot help but wonder at how feelings 4 pple can change ever so fast.....i was reading a friend's blog & seriously i dun know whether e prank is still on or not.....

ok starting fr e beginning...

my friend & his friend in australia decided 2 play a prank on their mutual friends by announcing on their blogs tt they're a couple & tt they have been keeping it under wraps all these while. as usu mails flooded as every1 tried 2 confirm if they r really an item. so my friend decide 2 tell every1 tt it is a prank! but e gal now says tt she really means it! a prank backfired??? my friend told me tt he actually like another gal whom i know, so in order not 2 let her get e wrong idea, he posted it on e blog tt it was all a joke....but i've been reading his blog, & apparently he has decided 2 test out if he & e gal in australia can work out......he's pretty frickled-minded ain't it??? here he was telling me tt it was a prank & tt he like another gal. i even encouraged him 2 pursue e gal.....now i guess it wld do e gal much better if he cld juz sort out his tots!

Quoting fr The Atomic Princess's blog:
Love & dating...18

There is a certain breed of man that I despise and sympathise with at the same time. The kind who do not know what they want (or don't want), and when pressurized, think they want everything when in truth, they just lacked the guts to say ,'no' or face rejection.

Too many times I've heard girlfriends around me telling me sad stories of how they mustered up courage to initiate a break off, only to be held back by their boyfriends, who will promise to talk it out and make it work. And then, just when they thought miracles may happen, their boyfriends turn around and say, 'I think it's better we just be friends'.

"What the Fuck?"

You guyz have this need to be the knight in shining armour (some more rusty actually), saving us from our distress brought upon by (in many cases) other guyz. But, when YOU are the reason of our distress, we will really appreciate if you do NOT be too kind to us by making us almost believe that 'love does conquer all'. Especially not when there really isn't any real love from your side.

C'mon! Guyz, wimps and jerks out there, get this clear. The fact that we belong to the fairer sex does not coincide with your opinion that we are the weaker sex.

The most unmanly thing a man can do is to give false hopes to the girl that loves him while he takes his own sweet time to sort out what he deserves.

So much time has flew past. If by now you still do not know if you deserve your woman, I say, you probably don't deserve her.

So, let her go. And I say this, meaning to call out whatever little courage you have to have a cool, mature talk with her, tell her in the face that 'it's impossible, we may not even end up as friends, but I want both of us to at least, move on.'

For the things that she has done for you, the time that you have spent together, the laughter you have shared, give her that chance to have a complete closure on you. That's your last act of respect towards someone once so close to you. The easiest break-up to move on from is the kind where both parties agree amicably that you both have to move on, on your own.

And if we do cry even as we agree, please do not freak out and backtrack. To cry is an act of natural grief towards the loss of something we once held so dear.

Let us cry. We will move on easier soon as we finish.

There is more resilience and strength in a woman than men give us credit for.


SNOW:Sort out ur tots here b4 u go over 2 australia!!! u r doing injustice 2 becks!!! & joyce!!!!